Some folk are either too blind or too stupid to realize when they got a good thing going. Boredom brought about thru repetition and or a idle mind usually tend to be the devil's playground. This post is not pointed at one sex more so than the other because both sides have been guilty of being oblivious to what they have @ home yet they always outside peeking over the fence thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
Maybe as a people we are just gamblers by nature. Never quite knowing how or when to quit when we ahead and just cash out. Nope we stay on the dice g.a.f(greedy as f***) feeling like we on the come up and oblivious to the fact you done came up already. Chips stacked up and things is looking lovely, but u act thirsty and keep going,and keep playing. Before long you crap out and your pockets look like rabbit ears and all you left with is the stinging memory of how all was good just a short time ago. We the masters of our own destiny so in the end it's logical you shoulder the blame for poor judgement.
Live and you learn as they say. But what happens to the fools who never learn to be grateful for what they got, never know when to say when. Those that shun a healthy dose of love to chase and eventually overdose on lust.Those that gamble with they relationship or family as collateral and then stand around looking stupid after karma shakes them down to they socks.
In order to put these thoughts on paper I need motivation. I feel every great writer should be observant. I observe people, and their idiosyncrasies and all the things that make them tick which in turn motivates me to put my findings to paper. I have watched both men and women be in great relationships and because they are not complaining like their friends who may clearly be in disfunctional relationships they feel they missing something and they life is too boring and they start to make deciscions that at the outset they don't realize will affect more than just them. Why don't we know how to leave well enough alone? Why aren't the simple pleasures enough for people anymore?
I guess we make ourselves morally unaccountable these days, create ways to passify our deceitful ways. Fabricate reasons that make it almost feel like we suppose to be doing dirt to get back at somebody who may not be doing anything negative against you to begin with.If you got it good already. I mean honestly, what's wrong with a hot meal waiting for you when you get home and someone that genuinely loves you down to your dirty drawls keeping the bed warm for you and sometimes doing some things to you in that bed that would curl your toes(Like Eddie Murphy in Boomerang lol). I guess that sound too much like right to some of these simpletons.
Some folks ask for things for seemingly forever and when they get it they dont know what to do with it. Temptation gets the best of them and they let their harmonious situation get disturbed or destroyed by someone who mainly for their enjoyment was merely a distraction. Your close "real friends" usually are not in compliance with your devious deeds especially if they can see from the outside looking in that you have alot to lose. Most of the time they are vocal about their disagreement with the dirt the person is doing.
They may even start questioning themselves continuing to be your friend because they looking at you sideways behind how that person is conducting themselves. Those friends also don't wanna hear you bitching once you get tangled in your web of deciet. They be like "I told yo dumb ass, and now you out in the cold. The person you took for granted is now with someone better than you happy as hell and now you getting dissed by the person you was trickin off with who wasn't better than what you had to begin with.SMH stupid mutha*****.." (Where they do that @???)
Why does it take someone losing everything that they took for granted and looking at their actions in retrospect to really appreciate what they had. It always hurts that much more when you have little to no chance to make things right. When you go from feeling like you got it all under control to everything is beyond your control, it's gotta be a humbling experience.
If I had the blueprint to a solid long lasting relationship I would be a rich man. I would 4sho sell the secrets like bottled water. Unfortunately I don't have the blueprint. I only have this platform to try and inspire people to think further than the moment. To get those of us with something worth salvaging to not just throw it away over nothing more than boredom or just thinking they trading up. If it is to the point that you are weighing the pro's and con's of your situation then be a stand up individual and speak up and leave the situation before you f*** around and bring the outside worlds drama right into your living room. Don't bring the war going on outside into your castle because in the end no one wins and everybody suffers.
God willing we will continue to evolve and learn how to love one another the right way! One Day!!! (I hope)
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